(Looking out the window)
Thanks for reading my blog over the years. I try to give the people reality entertainment when it comes to dating black women. I really never read the stats on my blog. I was surprised I came in at a strong 7 percent right behind Tommy Sotomayor. LOL That is with no promotion and hardly writing on my blog.
Oh yeah, not even using youtube videos. I was happy with 1 percent or even 2 readers to be honest with you. That shows the growth of this particular genre of blogging. I figure the dating genre of blogging will grow.
I might put Mrs Laurelton Queens out very soon. We got new phones. I got an I Phone 5 coming Tuesday and a Galaxy note coming. I am just waiting for the right time to put that album out. Right now I am building my buzz on Lipstick Alley.
Looking out at the landscape of black women bloggers. Sorry for the delay of the new album. Shout out to all my readers and lurkers. If I only got 1 reader. I am happy with it. It always takes time to build a buzz. By the way, i see many black women bloggers using my slang “bottom feeders”. I take it as a compliment though. They got some nerve referring to men as bottom feeders.
I recently wrote on a post about this idea of black women being a prize. They should be treated as the prize. In my all my years of dating, I ain’t met a prize. That goes for middle class black women. Just because you go to college, law school and etc does not make you a prize.
I reserve a “prize” as a woman with the whole package. For example, educated, attractive, does not have several kids by different men and actually has a career. You can arguably say that excludes about 95 percent of black women.
There are several types of black women bottom feeders.
1. You got the dinner whore. You can go out like 20,000 times, she always seems broke. You would think the pussy is worth it.
In the end it wasn’t worth it. You keep looking at her like ” I could have bought a new shirt or watch or something”.
2. The other type of bottom feeder. A career college student in her late 30s. Like you are going to wait around until she finishes school at 40 years old. To make matters worse, she demands to have a baby and family right after school. My response you are fired. You are not a spring chicken here having kids at damn near 40 years old. Let it go baby.
3. The other type of bottom feeder, the delusional chubby black girl. She thinks every man wants her for her 200 pound body. Sadly that is not the case. But you can’t tell her that because the thug simps sweat her all the time. Again who is going to pass up easy pussy. She got fired too.
4. The other type of bottom feeder, talked about her bad relationships, baby daddy and current guy spanking her and not really talking to her. After almost falling asleep listening to that. She got fired asap.
5. The other type of bottom feeder, loose old ass black women. How you turn in a ho at damn near 40 years old. At first, it seems cool and you realize she is goofy. She just seems to happy to he a ho, it irks you after awhile. Maybe she is reliving her childhood or something. Perhaps the most nicest black women out of the bunch. Again a dead end street, partly because of her age and overall her being just goofy. I deal with these type of old ass black women all the time. Sort of a comfortable being a sperm bucket.
I always said seeing a old broken black woman is arguably the worse. You can see the vulnerability and weakness. THOSE are the black women that saw the cliff and tried to turn around before it was too late. Unfortunately, they crashed into the wall and are now crippled.
That is why I say sellout black women are the weakest calf in the herd. They are often the sperm bucket for accomplished black men. They can say what they want on a blog. I never take it personal. It’s like you give me sex, why am I mad at you? I mean, you irk me, but I am not mad at you in the sense you stole something from me. I see you just want attention that’s all.
I will touch on number 5 some more. Since the audience of readers are in the 30s and up age group. Roughly the women that are struggling in the dating game tend to be 28 and up. For black women maybe younger.
You will often hear black women need to date out. More specifically rainbeaus. The sad fact is many rainbeaus are not entering into serious relationships with black women. It does not matter how many celebrities pictures you up. It does not matter if Tia Tomery is being called names by anonymous people that are trolling. Those celebrities are not among the “common people”.
Social media, and twitter and all these other forms of communication can “make you feel” the world loves you. The reality is people date within there own tribe. Puerto rican women date Puerto Rican men and etc. The reason that Asian women and white men are one of the leaders in interracial dating is because Asian women seem obsessed with white folks. I always though it was a bit creepy and weird.
But you have to look at it from there perspective. Asian people are in a very closed society. I remember going to college and all the Asians took Math and Busines Degrees. They would all sit in a little group and study. The black students, there was always a party to go to. I went to a couple of them. I would say its no different than a project party or a house party. The only difference is the black women look better and the place was cleaner.
I was watching a documentary on the “Fourth world”. Most of the population on the planet lives in extreme poverty. India, Asian and Africa. People do not realize how good they have it in the United States.
So why would people be surprised if an Asian girl that comes from humble beginnings would put her heart and soul into a white guy to save her. That is why so many of them are passive aggressive. This idea that Asian women are “soft”. That is a myth. I had a white friend that was literally afraid to leave his Asian wife. She would literally throw a tantrum.
Overall, black women are the polar opposite. They give up on their relationships once the man feels he is not happy. Not say black women do not try to keep their marriage and relationships together. I think men just cut them off faster than non black women. Now is that the legacy of slavery and the perceptions of black women. That might be true.
I remember seeing a white girl on a talk show crying about cheating on her white husband. The white husband started to cry and took her back. I was like ” She cheated on you but you crying about taking her back”.
Black women just got to sneeze wrong and they get cut loose. LOL Yeah, I can see the frustration many black women have. There is a double standard out there. But they also contribute to it themselves.
If you are going to drive into the wall at 100 mph. You can’t say “the car made me drive fast”. You intentionally tried to drive through the wall and you didn’t make it.
That is what many of these black women bloggers are doing. They got topics like ” why do they hate non working black women”? First off you can’t have it both ways. First you was strong and independent. Now you want to be a lazy housewife. You want to be a lazy house wife in a bad economy where 1 income cannot support the family. God bless the black women that thinks every white guy is Brad Pitt. But they are seriously delusional here.
PA girl says to me ” I should leave you, you’re a jerk”. I look at her like ” Are you high”? Who is going to be with a 40 year old chubby black girl with no formal education and a wack ass job. Yeah you have lost weight being with me, I got you looking better. Do not be fooled, I can replace you with another black women just like that.
Clearly, I got my point across to her. Just because it looks “easy” to work 2 IT Jobs and I just got certified in cable wiring (recently).
It is not EASY. That shit is hard work. When its all said and done, you will be dick riding men after I am long gone. There is nothing worse than a 50 year old black woman wearing tight jeans and halter tops at the club. I don’t care how go she looks for her age.
There are many 40 year old black women trying to dress skimpy too. You can dress tasteful. You busy dressing like these Babylonians in the street.
I am out.