I wasn't made 1 of Bin Laden's wives because , well I don't know why.

Hey Wale come to me baby. I will make you a real black man!

(Putting my cigar down)

Gloree really went hard on that last comment. It inspired me to write again. I am starting to heat up again man. LOL

(Dancing to Jeff Redd)

Yeah I went R&B on this one. Man I use to listen to this song every god damn day on the radio. I think back in the 90s not sure. It never failed man. I remember sitting in the back of the car when my father went to the United Nations for work in Manhattan.

I think people underestimate my range. But they are going to see. I am more motivated than I have ever been. In my head, I already know what I want to talk about and I put the multimedia together to get my point across.   I was “raw” 2 or 3 years ago, I am more complete with my blog game.  I just haven’t reached my pinnacle yet.  I am still growing as a blogger though.

I have to admit I am a music guy. I often write listening to music. Music really gives you a pulse of what is going on. Yeah Jeff Redd totally came out the blue for me because I kept saying to myself Dee Dee said ” I am telling you I am leaving”. So that is how that title came about. Well, some of my personal life added to it.

So the song started dancing in my head. LOL Basically that is how it came about. But the lyrics are some real shit. Jeff Reed really hit what was going on with that song.  If you really want to know what black men feel about relationships. You really cant listen to rap music. You got to listen to the 70,80s and more specifically the 90s music.

Anyway,  now let me to Kola Boof. You know me, I never shy away from a fight. She kind of reminds me of a BDWE women that just went off the cliff for no apparent reason. The last time she was in the news. She was dissing Wale (the rapper). How you went from addressing “rainbeau diplomats and mainstream media to talking about a  rapper like a teen girl that was hurt by him.

This is the shit I am talking about concerning black women. It sort of reminds me of going to a bar with my homeboy Alamo and all the middle aged black women acting like they are 21 or 22.  You damn near 40 years old, saying “Girl Guccie Mane is that shit”. I just shook my head. On top of that, she got all these tattoos on her lower back , thighs and shit.

I don;t mind the tatts on some black women. But its borderline tacky on some of them.  I got no tatts, I might get some ( I highly doubt it).

Now back to Kola Boof goes on a rant about African men. Yet she allegedly sleeping with Kimora Lee’s African Husband.  See, you was doing well with the lies about being Bin Laden Mistress and he allegedly raping you while on dialysis. You had the rainbeaus believing that bullshit. You also made up some stories about being a child solider in Sudan or freedom fighter.

Now I am not disputing her maybe being a freedom fighter in Sudan. However, where do they do that at in Africa? Got African women with ammo and guns running around with the Sudanese Army like Xena warrior princess.

(Shaking my head) Again I don’t know if this is true. She a tough girl but gets raped by Bin Laden and sticks around braiding his hair. Stop the fuckery LOL! It wasn’t like she said the “body guards raped her”. She specifically said Bin Laden did it. LOL I ain’t defending Bin Laden but the guy ain’t exactly grow up like his fighters. Yeah he participated in battle. I don’t take that away from him. But the FBI even said there was infighting among Bin Laden’s group.

There is just so many holes in the Kola Boof story. The BDWE dared me to write about her. Well they got their wish.

Geez

This black woman is a train wreck. Here is the excerpts from her book.

I’ve had an awful lot of men.

To my amusement, the MEDIA has cooked up tales about my
“romances” with movie actors Djimon Hounsou, Gerard Butler,
boxer MikeTyson, basketball star Luol Deng…and of course, Osama Bin
Laden, and before him, Osama’s mentor–the former Sudanese
Vice President Hasan al-Turabi.

(scratching head) The media cooked up tales right. You just said you was whoring around with many men. Now you are backtracking because you can get sued. Its all good.

Let’s see what else she said….read it for yourself

http://kolaperfume.5u.com/articlesBoof_1.html

I was adopted at age 8 by a Black American family in Washington, D.C.
(from Sudan)—so while I can easily sound like a  Black American–there are small details (my vagina is infibulated–meaning tribally marked in Arabic and “sewn tight”) and I am not Christian or Islamic (I started my own “Womanist” religion)–details that are not altogether in line with what ESSENCE magazine
or a traditional Black American church Mother would advise you.

But let me tell you–men like “foreign” ways.  And additionally, “animal”
spirituality is always more powerful than “intellectual” spirituality when
it comes to love, sex, infatuation and “sustained committment.”

Physical attraction is one thing–but to be “beguiled” is quite another.

I am now 40, and I have never not had a man or “men” interested in
me.  I have had interracial relationships; multiple boyfriends; marriage
proposals from 3 races of men–the grand sweeping love story, babies
and “house-wifery” with A BLACK MAN–and been held in North African Castles by two lovers (Turabi and Bin Laden).

At this moment, I am a somewhat “neurotic” (driven) Career
Woman–a soccer mom/novelist/professional cook/activist who is
going through what I call my “BoyToy” phase.

(Putting my cigar down) This woman is more interesting than I thought.

I kind of believe her story. I am going to tell you why.  Men kind of like raw sexuality. Looks are important but a sexual freak can get pretty far.  Like I said, the woman is somewhat attractive (some of my peers disagree). I definitely think she got “something” I can’t put my finger on.

She is a very intelligent but disturbed woman.

I read some of her work. This is VERY INFORMATIVE  for me.  A lion always wants information.  Kola Boof is definitely a notch on my belt. I might do a series on her on blog. I am going to elaborate why Kola wields that black pussy like a deadly weapon.  (For the record she ain’t the only black woman that does this, she just happens to be vocal about it).

I got to fit in the Mark Story though. LOL But we will get back to her.

(Sigh) White women are losing now. Mark’s story here

Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan were married on Saturday according to the groom’s Facebook page. (Photo via Facebook)

Mark Zuckerberg‘s good week just got better. On Saturday, he married long-time girlfriend Priscilla Chan.

After watching the company he cofounded go public on Friday, the Facebook CEO changed his status on his personal profile page to “married.” According to the Associated Press, the 28-year-old Zuckerberg and the 27-year old Chan exchanged their vows at a small ceremony at the groom’s home in Palo Alto, Calif. There were fewer than 100 people at the event, including Facebook Chief Operating Officer Sheryl Sandberg.

While the black women and white women battle out for the “white rainbeaus”. The Asian women are winning.

By the way the black women never had a chance. But clearly white women failing like this is kind of surprising to me.

A couple white women told privately he is Jewish. I ain’t never had a problem with Jewish guys. They always been nice to me. Maybe because I worship on Saturdays.  I am still a Christian though.

I mean, so what, you let that slip away.The might white woman failing is still news USA Today needs to talk about. This was  a major loss for them!

I am out

Y'all knew I had 25 kids already, now you are taking me to court. Here is you're $1.84. Now go buy an Ice Cream Cone, you can lick that, like you licked me!

Ya honor, the boy Desmond don't know any better. These black women wanted some of this. What da boy supposed to do ya honor?

(Lighting my cigar)

Looking at the blog landscape of the game. Apparently NW NW is either down or blocking people. It is very unusual if you ask me. Personally, she just might be revamping her website. She did get a lot of traffic to that site. But that is not the reason when  I say the downfall of Christelyn is happening.

I have been observing the game for YEARS. There is a couple problems with that whole movement. There will be infighting among the different sellout black girl “factions”. Number 1 you got the Mrs Kitty, La Reyna, and Gloree factions.  You would say their views are what the mainstream majority black women think. Contrary to what people believe on my blog. They never said there was no problems with black men. They just said that the white man option may not be “heaven” like many of the BDWE Bloggers like to promote it as.

Behind the scenes, there is serious infighting. I have documented this with the Evia situation and her “crew”. I call them “the do anything for a white man crowd, well if you can’t get a white man , well it is you’re fault”. Essentially that is the extreme wing of the sellout black girl faction.

You got the Christelyn sellout black girl faction.  They are sort of the middle of the road on it. They want white men, but won’t doing anything possible to get 1. However, there egos and stubbornness rubs other black women the wrong way, even the extreme Evia wing, who are increasingly becoming erratic and angry at her.

I would compare it to the whole NBA Housewives thing and Atl Housewives situation. What you got is a bunch of black women that were former ballers wives, jump offs or whatever there were to a baller. Now they are tearing each other weave out because, I guess, 1 of them never really amounted to something. LOL I really don’t know what the fighting is about to be honest with you.

Clearly Shaq ex wife ain’t broke, uh, Jennifer ain’t broke (yet). Everybody else is just, I don’t know. I haven’t really watched the shows in years. ATL Housewives, other than Kandi, nobody else got shit.  Most of these shows are struggling to get a Professional athlete on the show. I think the last two were Kenny Anderson (who is washed up) and Eric who is still rich.

The Spanish one was sleeping with Kenny Anderson, LOL (just shaking my head). I don’t even to mean laugh but the girl sitting next to you after fucking you’re man. LOL

I was briefly watching Basketball Wives of Los Angeles. I guess more of the same here. I think half of them ain’t even with a steady athlete. The other half is actually in relationships or married. I guess the alpha  black women will spank the other black women. I guess that’s how that will go down.

This part was funny to me.

Imani Showalter – ex-fiancée to player Stephen Jacksonand mother of three, Imani has fought hard against being stigmatized since parting ways with her famous ex and isn’t shy to confess that she hasn’t dated since. A former singer with a New York girl group, Imani says she’s in the process of “rediscovering what makes me happy again… I want to find my passion and that’s where I want to go.”

Gossip – The rumor is that Imani got left at the altar by Stephen because she refused to sign a prenup. Sources say Imani had been putting off signing the prenup and when Stephen showed up with the contract on the wedding day, all hell broke loose. There are also whispers that she might have lied about her age and other things to Stephen.

Man shout out to Captain Stephen Jackson from the Bob Cats. LOL He came to the wedding with the prenup. LOL Aw man, (shaking my head). Well she got to the alter, she just ain’t close the deal. That is just 1 big fail. How the hell you fail on you’re wedding day???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

But really  the show is somewhat “real”. People like to say this is “fake shit”. Na I think most of that shit is real. I think its actually more sexual, than they like to let on. Think about it, athletes usually play half of the year. The rest of the time, they got to  be spanking hos all day.

I mean, that is what I would do, if I was an athlete. What is there else to do in you’re spare time after business deals, wifey and the kids? You are traveling mostly. You can arguably have different black women from state to state if you’re money is long enough. It just fosters extremely money hungry women, especially in minority neighborhoods. Yeah Draya is top notch, but Draya had to beat out at lest 4 different black women equally as good looking. You have to factor in the Hispanic women and White women coming after the black athletes. That is why its nothing to sneeze at that some of these women can pull 2 or 3 ballers. Obviously, they are super freaks. Athletes can run through different women and not call them back. He must have called you back for a reason.

Anyway

There is a sort of informal network of exclusive black women for professional athletes.  That is why rappers and athletes can go to Miami and all of a sudden you got a black ho on some type of rumor site. She ain’t on damn rumor site because she wears nice clothes. She is very good sexually that is why she on a damn rumor site or mediatakeout.  Sometimes, you wonder why is this black girl famous period?  Who is this?????

Much of this trickles down to these young black girls. That is why you got a large amount of delusional black women. I had a black girl tell me “do you know who I am”? I said ” uh no sorry who are you”? “Niggas around here know me”. I said “uh ok, what is you’re point”? She kissed her teeth and left.

I can literally talk to 4 black women in a row and they will go on a delusional rant about “people talking about them because they are sexy”.

All of them are chunky by the way.

The situation is exacerbated when a couple famous Negros call them sexy (yet they never hear from these famous black men again).  Oh you met Ludacris, uh some athlete, okay where is he at now? They go into some story like he is “coming back”. But you can’t say nothing negative about the guy to them.

They will defend a rich or famous black man even if the Negro never called them in YEARS. Its unfortunate that many black women are a fierce guard dogs (regardless of skin color, they just take the extreme with white men as well, the underlying issue is there loyal to the wrong people).

That is why its never been about ir dating to me. It’s about the underlying problems for black women. The men’s skin color just changes but the issues don’t change for black women. Many black women praising the white rainbeaus. They know damn well the rainbeau is not running to marry them. They know they abandon there interracial kids with them as well. The problem with these black women is that they are in an impossible position here.

They already got black men upset at them. White men don’t trust them, and sort of use them now. White guys are talking about I make a black woman spend money on me. The only reason that happens is because black women feel guilty brushing off white men. They are going to come out of their pocket and get dumped ANYWAY. They are doing to this to appease rainbeaus for the past deeds of other black women. It is very sad in a way.

It is just a bad downward spiral if you ask me. Much of this brought upon themselves.  If you encourage the behavior, you cant say damn I ain’t think the pitbull would bite me.  Now you scared to death of the dog.

Basically that is all I can say on this matter.

Now back to Desmond

Many Newsone readers may remember Desmond Hatchett, 33, the man who had 21 children with 11 different women. Well, he’s back in the news; this time he’s begging for help with child-support for his now 30 children!

Huffington Post reports:

Desmond Hatchett has fathered 30 children — which is believed to be the record in Knox county, according to the Los Angeles Times — with 11 different women. His youngest children are toddlers and his oldest is 14.

Hatchett reportedly asked the court to give him a break on his payments, claiming that he’s struggling to make ends meet with his minimum-wage job. Currently, the state requires him to divide 50 percent of his earnings among the 11 women, some of whom receive as little as $1.49 a month, WREG reports.

What the court needs to do lock up these stupid ass black women that claim they ain’t know he had so many kids.  As many black men have stated before, black women sleeping with the same ‘segment of men”. Now they want to take the guy to court “knowing” he has x amount of kids and works for 7 dollars an hour.

I wouldn’t doubt 1 of the nappy heads are sleeping with him YET AGAIN. She up in court giving other black women hi  fives and shit.

I will never forget, I was at Jamaica Ave in New York. They got a family court over there. Anyway, I am walking down the street and all I see is a long line of Hispanic and black women. I was like “damn is there is  concert going on”? (They had just built the family court at the time).

A white lawyer laughed  and said this is child support court, they are here to give there baby daddy hell.  I guess some of the women overheard this on the line and gave me the “side eye”. I just laughed and kept it moving. They all looked angry too. They was like “this mfer got me on this long ass line because he won’t pay up”. LOL

This is the reason why I don’t come down too hard on Desmond. There is a couple reasons for this. It wasn’t like these women went to there local college campus and got knocked up by different black men.  It feels like they seeked out “Desmond”. It’s no way you knock up so many women unless they know about you.

Listen the black community is very small man. Desmond is even from a small town, it wasn’t like the Negro was traveling out of state knocking up black women. He was right on his block, relaxing.  LOL If I was the judge, I would have thrown all there cases out. I would have said “maybe you will learn you’re lesson, you knew damn well Desmond wasn’t going to be no doctor or accountant? Now move along slut and have a nice day.

Now stop wasting the court’s time with you’re bitchassness! Now the poor children got to suffer because of you’re bitchassness poor decisions in men!

But see the media jumps on him. They make it seem like he tied down all these black women and stuck his penis in them.  (disgusted).

I am going to bed man.

(Leaning in my chair looking out the window) I thought these 2 videos were very interesting. I see both points of views here. I thought what the girl said in the youtube was interesting. She wants to elevate conversation. Unfortunately, the discussion is not going in that direction. Not with all the damaged beyond repair talk. Yet, it is black women in dire circumstances here. Black men have problems that is true. But black women are in a precarious situation here.  All they can say is black men won’t compete. When has any of these women competed? Competing is not being the best jump off and mistress in the world. If it was, you still would be dead last in that category as well.

Now back to the tragedy.

There is just some people that are so ungrateful to be alive. They look at being poor as the end of the world for them. After my blog career is all  said and done. You will appreciate you’re blessings.  You will not be ungrateful, not you, not anymore!

This is a very troublesome story to me. For several reasons for course, that is the Sociologist “in me”.  The reason I say this is very important story. Since the recession has happened, it has claimed many victims. I had read Jamila’s self serving post about unemployment being down for black woman a whole “3 points”. I am too lazy to read her post again. Basically she said it dropped a couple percentage points. At least she was honest to include “part time jobs” and underemployment. By the way, I am happy Jamila got her degree. I just like taking jabs at her. 

Anyway, here is the story of what happened.

Updated at 6:20 p.m. ET: A Florida mother killed her four children and then shot herself Tuesday morning as Brevard County, Fla., deputies closed in on her Port St. John home, authorities said.

Deputies said the mother, identified as Tonya Thomas, 33, sent a warning text message to a friend before the shootings, but the friend didn’t see the text until later.

Three of the children, at least one already wounded, fled to the home of a neighbor who had been awakened by gunfire, but Thomas immediately called the children back and killed them, sheriff’s spokesman Tom Goodyear said.

The neighbor called 911 as they left his home, Goodyear said.

See the story at NBC station WESH of Orlando

Tim Shortt / FLORIDA TODAY

Brevard County sheriff’s investigators say a mother took the lives of her four children during an early morning confrontation, calling three of them back into her home to fatally shoot them before turning a gun on herself, law enforcement sources report.

“She was very calm,” Goodyear said of the neighbor’s report. “She called them back and they walked back to the house.”

Arriving deputies found one of the children, Pebbles Johnson, 17, lying in the front yard of the Bright Avenue home and spotted a person at the front door, Goodyear said. The person ducked back inside after seeing deputies, he said. The teen was declared dead when she was transferred to an ambulance.

As a SWAT team arrived, officers heard gunshots inside. SWAT officers entered through a back sliding door just before 7 a.m., and found Thomas and three other children dead. They were identified as Joel Johnson, 12, Jazlin Johnson, 13, and Jaxs Johnson, 15.

Goodyear said the children’s father, who was separated from the family, had been notified of the deaths.

Also, a friend of Thomas told police she texted him during the night that she wanted to be cremated with her four children, Goodyear said. However, the friend did not see the text until after he woke up Tuesday morning and the incident was over. The friend, who was not identified, called police after seeing news of the deaths, he said.

Goodyear said police previously responded to the Florida “Space Coast” home, about 15 miles south of Cape Canaveral, for domestic disturbance calls involving Jaxs Johnson. He said the most recent call was about a month before Tuesday’s shootings.

“The cops have been called to that house many times because the kids were terrorizing the neighbors,” neighbor Travis St. Peter told NBC station WESH.

Goodyear said that of Tuesday afternoon, authorities had no motive for the killings.

Listen black women are such in a fragile state. I am surprised that more of these incidents don’t happen, Yet there is other ways black women are killing themselves. You got drug abuse, alcoholism, risky sexual behavior. You add poverty and depression and you got a recipe disaster that will happen.

What really disturbed me was the comments about this incident. I will show some of the comments that angered me a bit.

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Okay enough of the self serving comments.  When a white woman kills her children, they have sympathy for her, even when she does not even kill herself. A black woman kills herself and her kids (clearly she felt remorse if she killed herself as well).  Clearly, these people came down hard on her.

Depression is silent killer for black women. The media always takes the point of view of men being the “bad guys or oppressors”. They fail to realize what makes women live a risky lifestyle. The HIV epidemic , wouldn’t be one if women used condoms with their partners.  It wouldn’t be an epidemic most of the time if women wasn’t so loose. It wouldn’t be an epidemic if they actively encouraged there partners to go to the clinic.

Now on rare occasions do husbands give there wives HIV.  Yeah that does happen, but a majority of the time its the risky behavior of women.

I want to point out something in the article. This whole suicide thing was sparked by the husband allegedly leaving. I don’t know the full story on that. Clearly, these kids were not toddlers. Obviously the husband took care of his kids and her for a LONG period of time. Nobody knows what caused the relationship fall out. Clearly, she was ill equipped to survive in the real world with all those kids.

This is how dangerous dependency is for black women. Every black woman is strong until shit hits the fan.  They can talk all that shit they want. Until reality sets in and you see what is going in the country. You are going to wish you treated those black men the right way. That is why I am dismayed by the all the attacks on black men by these BDWE Black women.  They are so sure that the rainbeau will do everything for them.

I just watch them drive off the cliff.  That is all black men can do at this point.  Black men don’t have to stick around because you got kids with him and you’re nasty attitude and promiscuous behavior. She killed those kids to send the guy a message. That is unforgivable.  Just because you are a failure in you’re personal relationships. The kids shouldn’t suffer for you’re piss poor decisions.

I could count on my hands on how many black women tried to kill themselves for shit they did to “themselves”.  They leave 1 guy for another guy and end up fucked up financially. Now they want to kill themselves. Shit like that.  They got the nerve to go on a tirade about ALL black men after that.

I told them years ago, its not going to end well for you. All that bashing black men  will backfire on you. They didn’t want to listen.

Black men, we clean up you’re mess.  When the kids are hungry, its black men that comes to you’re rescue. NOT A GOD DAMN RAINBEAU. Rainbeaus only care when you are on top, attractive, and NOT obese. I haven’t seen a rainbeau with a broke black woman.

In conclusion

The Florida incident is just the tip of the iceberg. The Republicans are cutting the safety net for many minority women that depend on them. What do you expect a desperate woman to do. Especially, if she can’t pull men sexually anymore.

The result is not going to be pretty here. That is why black women are rapidly becoming incarcerated. Mainly for drug abuse, prostitution, and petty crimes. ALL related to lack of money and being dependent on men there whole lives.

I am out.

(Lighting my cigar)

I was reading the NYT Article.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/13/education/at-explore-charter-school-a-portrait-of-segregated-education.html?_r=1&hpw

Apparently, white flight is something “new” now? White flight has been going on for the last couple hmm 20 or 30 years if you ask me. Many of the white folks are fleeing to places like Idaho, Iowa, hmm I think the Northwest corridor area. Also some parts of the “South”. I guess the NYT is pushing the panic button because there is hardly any white kids in the piss poor elementary, middle and high schools (public schools).

These schools are atrocious man. I went to 1 of the baddest high schools in Jamaica Queens or NYC for that matter (That is quite accomplishment).  it sort of like earning you’re stripes going to the worst prisons in America.  From my experience, when white kids came into our High school (actually Hispanic kids who looked white).

Basically the white and Hispanic girls got a pass if they hooked up with the right Negros. Since my homeboy was really popular, he was popular because guys wanted to be like him and girls wanted to be with him.  I was part of the crew (well the inner circle you can say). Yeah he pulled the best looking Hispanic girl (she was a freshman but very cute and social). Many black girls were unhappy she got so popular so quick. She manage to hook up with the right crew though. My homeboy liked her a lot but ended being with a black girl from the prom that liked him ever since freshman year. It was really a funny story.

We went into the classroom because he said “some girl liked him”. I said aight let’s go see what that is about. He saw her and turned around and called her a “mutt” and left. 3 years later, this girl just changed overnight. She was like you don’t recognize me? My homeboy was like “na who is you”? She said they one you called mutt.

Damn girl you filled out, got a butt and breasts now.

We laughed though, anyway, he asked her out and they have been together ever since. I really thought he would be with that Hispanic girl.  Oh well, the Hispanic girl wasn’t really heartbroken too long.

Actually I liked his sister (we ain’t know he had a sister until she came in freshman year). Unfortunately he didn’t take kindly to that. Of course nobody would talk to his sister, it was just something you didn’t do. I remember some guy was talking to his sister. We was all walking down the hallway (we didn’t go to class, we just looked for girls in class).

He literally grabbed his sister by her neck.  I was like damn chill. He was like she ain’t  gonna be no whore in MY SCHOOL.  I just shook my head like she young.  I was always the mediator of the group. I was always willing to talk to the tough guys. 

You got to understand there is a sort of “organized chaos” when it comes to bad schools. People just don’t get jumped or stabbed “for no reason”. I mean it happens, but not when you got two LARGE crews in the same school. 

I  knew the cousin of the leader of the Bloods.  The leader of the bloods never liked me. LOL I was cool with his cousin. His cousin is soft is hell, and he listens to him. The black community is strange like that. The harder the nigga is, the more his relatives are soft or homosexual.  I am just keeping it real though.

Anyway long story short, the leaders of the bloods got this 1 black girl jumped by 20 girls. I think he did that just to say “he runs the school”.

Me and my friends was like ” that’s pussy shit because she actually beat like 5 out of the 20 of them jumping her. Plus I don’t know who she “rolled with”. We have our certain girls in our crew already.  They never been jumped. So we ain’t really care.

We just bought more weapons to school that’s all. If worse came to worse, we would bring the big homies (they are grown ass men) and it would be over with. We wasn’t really worried at all.

California is more organized than New York. I am not an expert on California. However, there is a certain organized chaos. People do not get shot or beat up for no reason. There is always a warning before things just get out of hand.

The reason I bring up this story. It would be hard for white kids to adapt to this in a public school unless they got a “white gang”.  White gangs got ran out back in the late 80s and 90s because of the hate crime laws.  Many white kids are reluctant to join a gang because it brings “heat” to them by Hispanic and Black gangs because they think “they are racist”. Law Enforcement do not like kids in white gangs partly because they think the white kids will get slaughtered and they don’t want that heat from the minority neighborhoods they patrol.

I lived in NY a majority of my life and have seen many racial incidents. I have seen the subway wars with the Hispanic gangs stealing starter hats from Asian and white kids. I have seen racial fights between black and Hispanics in Bryant High school. I was actually kicked out for participating in that situation.  I ain’t even know half the black kids in that school. Again, it felt like a prison riot to be honest with you.  I was obligated to help my race in the fight, even though most of my friends were Hispanic at that period of time. I got kicked out of the school.

I actually got sent to a bad “black school” where I lived next too.  I had to make friends quick and get with the right crew. Many of my friends on my block was the actually main real niggas in the neighborhood. I kind of moved into a neighborhood that was established as a place where all the major drug dealers and tough guys lived at (not all drug dealer live in the projects). 1 Jamaican Don lived on the block. He had a really nice house but never seem to go to work. His wife was a black nurse. Very nice lady, but everybody know her husband is a major Jamaican drug lord. He had some nice cars, we used walk on the block just see his cars.  He use to spank the young  Jamaican girls in the neighborhood. (You tell me how teenage girls have there hair done, new clothes and sneakers every week”. It was really like that.

Basically you had the LB Fam, 50 cents, Ja rule and his people representing “Hollis Queens”. You had Mobb Deep and Nas (QB Projects is the largest projects in NY I think), Southeast Queens is actually a legendary place for black people.  People always talk about “Harlem”. But you got to put Southeast Queens in that mix as well. The boys from Queens was “getting money” REAL MONEY. Harlem guys in my opinion just like to “show off”.

Brooklyn guys didn’t take kindly to us taking there women and vice versa. There was a real rivalry with Brooklyn guys. Brooklyn guys hmm you had to be somewhat cautious. Especially if you go to a block party or project party. Brooklyn guys tend to hang out mainly with Brooklyn guys. It is a Brooklyn thing LOL.

Anyway,

This brings me the white flight story by the NYT. Here are some excerpts.

“It’s a bit weird,” Amiyah said of the school’s racial composition. “All my friends are predominantly black, and all the teachers are predominantly white. I think white kids go to different schools. I don’t know. I haven’t seen many white people in a big space before.”

Would it be better if it were integrated?

“I think they would stop calling me white girl if there were white kids,” she said. “Because my skin is a little lighter and I can’t dance, they call me that. Some of them can’t dance, either.”

What else?

“I could talk the way I talk.”

Other students speak street slang that she repudiates: “They will say to me, ‘You are so white.’ I tell them, I have two black parents. Do I look white?”

She had been having trouble making friends. This year, her mother noticed a speech change. “She’s slacking off more to fit in,” Ms. Kingston said. “She’s saying: ‘I been there.’ ‘I done that.’ ”

Amiyah confirmed this: “I speak a bit more freelance with my friends. Not full sentences. I don’t use big words. They hate it when I do that.”

She said she had become more popular.

Other students also relate the use of parlance linked to skin color. Shakeare Cobham, one of Amiyah’s friends, said: “If you’re darker, they’ll call them burnt. Light-skinned ones get called white.”

Zierra Page, who is in eighth grade, said: “The lighter-skinned girls think they’re prettier. They’ll say: ‘She’s mad dark. Look at me, I’m much prettier.’ ”

Now who is teaching black girls about skin color and hang ups about it?

The BDWE blame black men for saying light skin redbone is the thing to be.

I think black women do this too each other. I have said before, my mother is light skin and has called other black women a dark monkey. She is from Jamaica, she does not mince words.

I can’t recall never hearing a black woman talk about her skin color (which is always good to them).  What I mean by that, many black women do not have low self esteem. A dark skin chubby black woman will feel she is trya banks just like a light skin fat black women will think she is the shit.

The delusional behavior cuts across all color lines concerning black women.  I think the reason why so many black women focus on skin color is because pop culture influences them. If they see a rich black man with a light skin black woman. They will want to be that light skin woman. I remember when India Arie, the dark skin singer was with Musiq Soulchild. Nobody followed there relationship at all.

I remember when D Angelo was with Angie Stone. Nobody followed there relationship. Yet people follow Ashanti , Beyonce, and all these other light skin female actresses and singers.

I remember when Holly Robinson was replaced on the view with that chubby black woman comedian. They all literally raised hell like “why is this big fat dark black woman on the view?. Yet Holly Robinson was doing good on the show.

Well, the Asian lady felt threatened and played the two black women against each other. So black women went at each other throats because the Asian lady put that into motion. I didn’t understand the infighting amongst the black women over that replacement. The Asian lady felt threatened by Holly Robinson. Holly Robinson looked like she ran the show to me.

More excerpts

Marc Engel, a former investment banker turned librarian and media coordinator at Explore, is 53 and white. He frets about power differentials and how to transcend race, how to steer the students’ inner compass. “I worry so much about their role models,” he said. “The rap stars. The fashion models. The basketball players.”

He has his way of trying to fit in. “I call every kid brother and sister,” he said. “I say, hey, brother; hey, sister. One kid once asked me, ‘Are you my uncle?’ ”

OTHER staff members also wonder about the isolation of the students. Adunni Clarke, 34, who is black and is the lead intervention teacher who helps students and teachers who need extra support, said: “I don’t know that our kids get their placement in the world. I don’t know that they realize that they’re competing against all these other cultures.”

Talking about race “could be a Pandora’s box to some extent,” said Corey Gray, 27, who is white and in his first year at Explore as an eighth-grade language-arts teacher. “Is there a proper effective way to bring it in? There probably is. Do I know the way? No, I don’t.”

Many of the teachers are young, from different backgrounds, and there is steady turnover — from 25 percent to 35 percent in each of the past three years, a persistent issue at charter and high-poverty schools.

Tracy Rebe, the principal, is leaving this year. Her replacement, the fourth in the school’s short history, will be the first black principal, though not by design.

Early in the year, Mauricia Gardiner, 30, who teaches fifth-grade math and is of mixed race, was listening as students read a story about a black teenager who tried to rob a woman. Instead of reporting him, the woman took him home and tried to set him straight. The woman’s race wasn’t mentioned.

The main problem is not hiring enough black male teachers. By the way, TeachAmerica is bullshit. I know many guys that applied and nobody calls them back. They give these teaching jobs to the Ivy Leaguers and they quit as soon as they see the bad ass minority children.

I have worked with kids in a school settings.  Since I was 1 of the few black male mentors in the school, the kids looked up to me.

We would play football at recess and literally all the male kids wanted to play. It was serious as hell. I had to distribute the ball equally to the black and white boys.

You got to understand PA Is a Football Town, they live and breath Penn State Football. Many of these white kids accept diversity in the context of sports.

MY school that I worked in was a public school. The teachers were “hmm” kind of out of touch culturally but they worked there ass off. I can’t recall ever being in a school where the teachers discipline the kids and really wants them to learn.

I am from NY and NY teachers are totally under stress. I am not going to call them bad teachers at all. The PA teachers were under stress too . I think the difference in a small white town is that people don’t make excuses or just blame the parents. They really try to get that kid back on track.

In my opinion, I think the NY education system gave up on the kids. Not because they wanted to give up. I mean how much can a teacher do to reign in unruly students. You can’t be there parents or auntie.

The teacher’s jobs in not to be a social worker, psychologist, parent and law enforcement for kids. Parents have this expectation that teachers are supposed to be all these things and more.  It just don’t work that way.

Please feel free to chime on this topic

I am out.

I was mad at Odonnell, you damn conservative rainbeau. You just happened to be in the way that day! I was tougher than Romney as a kid and his wife that never had a job bitch!

We are done Tamron? I am in you're house? I am irritating you now? Are you taking me off the air. Oh God, who put this black woman in charge!

(Lighting my cigar) Geez Louise, I have never seen a black woman pimp slap a rainbeau this hard. I actually felt sorry for him. Jesus H Christ! I thought he was going to cry or something.  Poor Tim Carney, the conservatives club house is laughing at him right now.  He did sound whiny and bitchy though. He really walked into that one. Tamron might have had a bad day.

Oh boy, Tamron has a record of pimp slapping rainbeaus. Zach Wamp got “Tamroned” too. LOL Zach Wamp was out classed by Tamron. It does not help he sounds like Dukes of Hazzard.  (Shaking my head) “Git her done buddy”.

You know I had to release a Mother’s Day Special.  The church had a nice service for all the mothers.  This is one of the rare times I have gone to church. You got to do it for momma.

Black momma likes to see her son at a black church (very very important).

There was  a funny scene at the church though. Apparently the pastor got annoyed when he asked the husbands to get the roses for there wives. Apparently the black “chiren” went to get the roses. The Pastor was like ” I said the Husbands, if you coming up here and you a child something ain’t right!!!”

I almost fell off the church seat.  I ain’t even mean to fall out like that.  It was just a face palm moment. It was so awkward when the pastor said it.  The pastor like realized it “way later”. LOL He was like ” uh yeah pray for the  widows”.

Pray for the widows , wtf, the baby daddy damn missing man! LOL (shaking head again). We saying “widows” now, is that how we get down now? LOL

Anyway, let me move on before the BDWE pull there weaves and wigs out for always messing with them. I can’t help I am naturally funny. I might do stand up and get booed off the stage for speaking the truth.

Considering my blog is very hard on black women.  I go hard on my blog, I must admit. I am aware of this. I highly doubt, I will change my style of blogging just for the sake of being liked. My motivation is to write what interest me.  I fill a niche that needs to be talked about. I believe you bang on the door long enough someone will be like “fuck who is at that door, oh boy Laurelton here he go. LOL

But I want to point out that Black (challenges me). Even though, Black gets posted up and dunked on by me. I admire Black’s spirit though. I am pretty sure he will go back to the drawing board and come up with some conservative ideas.

I get Sundays and Mondays off now. Now I will be writing every week when I can.

Let’s get to the main post now.

I saw the hoopla with Tamron Hall slapping down a conservative “Rainbeau”.

Jesus H Christ, I saw the exchange, she slapped up the rainbeau. HMM My feeling on it, she sort of jumped the gun a little bit. I don’t defend conservatives, I thought the exchange went further than it was supposed to.  Saying stuff like I was a tougher kid than Romney. LOL Ray Charles could see that was a biased statement.

Again, in her defense. These conservatives always “whine about the media”. That gets annoying to me. Now they are trying dictate what is a news story or not.  The conservatives pick all types of non stories to talk about.  Obama ate dog meat and shit. Bullshit stories like that.  Now they want to whine because their guy Romney is a joke.

Nobody is really getting behind Romney. Its all about whether Obama can run a mistake free campaign long enough to win. Romney is just hoping Obama fucks up. LOL

Now let’s get back to Tamron Hall.  Clearly she likes smacking down rainbeaus that is for sure. Here is her bio

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tamron_Hall

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/02/lawrence-odonnell-tamron-hall-msnbc-anchors-dating_n_1249456.html

Lawrence O’Donnell And Tamron Hall Dating: Report

I guess she was mad at ODonnell and took it out on the conservative rainbeau.

LOL, Aw man, this is real bad , real bad, Joe Jackson!

Well, they won’t make a good couple. Well, maybe they will you never know. The both have the same lib philosophy.

Now enough of that, let’s move on to the NYT article about the student debt crisis.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/13/business/student-loans-weighing-down-a-generation-with-heavy-debt.html?_r=1&hp

50,000 in debt due to college obligations. Bowling Green State University.

I feel her pain these damn student loans are killing me too. However, it could have been worse. I know people that went to an Ivy League school for an education degree. You put yourself in 50,000 to 100,000 for an undergrad degree.

College is a rip off man. I paid hmm 1,000 dollars for getting my A.S in Computer Science. Everything the IVY league jerks are learning, I am learning too.

In my opinion, college only teaches you to be ‘efficient worker”.  It does not teach you to think out of the box.

If I had to do it all over again, I would done an accounting or computer science YEARS AGO.

Look for that next single “Money, Power, Respect”.

I hear you Dee Dee, what is you're excuse when black men are not in the picture? By the way, biracial and light skin black women are black women. Yeah the Blog "Money Team". Don't be mad at big homey that served you mash potatoes at the corporate cafeteria. You knew he had nothing to talk about! He was good enough to drop your panties for him. Now he can't go to social functions. I am undefeated on my blog baby. Its hard work baby!

(Lighting my cigar)

(Looking out the window) I just feel like I am in zone these last couple months concerning the topics I talk about. I talk about shit people are interested in (even when they don’t want to admit it). My titles got double meanings. When I say Jesus H Christ how many times I got to pay the price. I got that idea from my barber that was upset about the child support mandatory payment he has to do. Considering he was giving her  MORE money than the state required. But her broke ass wouldn’t get a job and applied for gov’t services. The state automatically comes after the father. It is out of her hands at that point. Again, she put that shit in motion being dependent.

Anyway.

I have been working  a long time on the joint album. Blackmenvent.com has come a long way. There are a lot of black men writing some impressive stuff on that site.  For a long time the BDWE black women have dominated the blog game. I have been writing about 3 years on this site. Prior to that, off and on on craigslist. I decided to take this game serious.

I actually got into the game because Evia said start your own website it won’t go anywhere.  I said ” what”? I guess she got what she asked for. I am a competitive person. It does not take much to motivate me. Evia found out the “hard way”. She is on the road to being irrelevant. Evia started off like Christelyn, the only difference is Evia is too insecure to make herself go public. Christelyn is very self absorbed and narcissistic. She wants that Hollywood lifestyle. She has been around those Hollywood type fake people.  I think she thinks you got to ‘fake it to make it”.  That is why I never  feel any remorse about most of the things she says. I use to get tight about it.  Not anymore.

At the end of the day, she kept the BDWE movement going. When Evia was banning comments, talking down to her black female readers like god almighty himself. It got to a point where Evia’s readers got sick of her. Christelyn comes along, and she is “happy go lucky”.  Basically they see something in Christelyn they would like to “be like”. Evia is like the mean step mother telling your ass what to do. Evia’s ego wouldn’t allow her to “walk away” because Evia believes Christelyn is not an intellectual giant. Not just Evia, the elite black women bloggers like Hello Kitty and Madam Norie (whatever her name is).  They all talk down to black women. They are not in the trenches with the average black women reader.

Christelyn is getting away from what made him popular. She is sipping wine, she got a big head now.  She is not really involved anymore by having all these guest writers. No offense to Toni or Jamila. They are making some waves. Toni is stuck in “blame the black man for everything, even my hang nail”.  No Wedding No Womb fell by the wayside, mentoring too (what happened to the non for profit).  She took too much on without much help. The emails I read, discloses all of this when Evia, Khadjia and Christelyn was at each other’s throats.  Christelyn is telling them y’all ain’t even contributing monetarily to the cause. Evia has no excuses, she got the money to give but is busy lecturing Christelyn on what to do.  On top of that, Christelyn got a publishing deal to release a book, contractual obligations. I think Evia moves her books “independently.

I think Christelyn wishes “now” she was independent.  She got all these PR people and shit. They are supposed to have you at a ‘certain level”. She should be doing college tours, speaking engagements, and etc like Mr Banks. Mr Banks ain’t even do half the work Christelyn has done. I haven’t seen Mr Banks mention Christelyn’s book publicly yet. Banks lives in Cali I think, I am not sure, somebody get me info on that.

These type of guys like Matthew “Hustle” and Mr Banks ( I respect the guy, he disappoints me though).  They basically use these BDWE women.  Christelyn will swear up and down they are helping her.   They got to do “canned answers”. I ain’t into all that bullshit. The whole industry can hate me, I thugged my way through.

I hope Mr Banks and Mr Matthew Hustle comes to Orlando FL.  I will find my way on stage.  I did it before, it’s nothing to me. I want to challenge them in a debate. I don’t care too much about the security.  Usually there is none at these “snob events”.

Anyway

I do more for Christelyn than those stupid PR people. They can read what I just said here. All you did was get her a small paragraph about her momma picking cotton and no mention of her book.   I would have told everybody to kick rocks! Christelyn tried to be nice, “well you didn’t mention my book”. Na, you should say bitch ass USA Today editor mention my god damn book.  You already put my name out.

Christelyn, that situation she brought that on herself. She needs to thank me for really inspiring the topics she even talks about. I gave her a lot of advice when I didn’t have to do that. Of course I didn’t do it to be benevolent. She really got me back in the game when things looked pretty dim.  Blogger had basically blackballed me due to numerous black women flagging me.

I could have just folded up and said fuck it. Why even write anymore if they censor you. Christelyn actually wrote something like “The death of Mr Laurelton Queens”.  I really think if that didn’t happen, I would have quit. Things happen for a reason I guess.

I guess she feels some type of way like I stabbed in her in the back.  That is understandable to me.  But there is no way we wouldn’t be on a “collision course” concerning ideology.  It’s never personal for me concerning Christelyn.  I just want to win as bad she does.  I never wrote a bad review of her book just to be spiteful like I did Evia.

Evia had that coming for a long time. I just decided to finish her off. Christelyn already finished her off. I just put the dirt over her blog grave so to speak (that was harsh).  By the way, Christelyn tried to act innocent about everything. She brought the “thugs” in to finish off Evia (namely me). I happen to think Christelyn is smarter than people think. Ain’t no way hell would all that “beef” with between Evia and Khadjia just ‘suddenly appear”. She knows I watch like a hawk what is going on. That’s all I am going to say concerning this issue. Nothing is done by “accident” put it that way.

The funny thing was the beef was mainly over black men being allowed to comment. More specially, geared towards black men like me. Evia is pretty undercover. Evia is controlling like an old grandmother trying to make you drink hot soup. The only time Evia gets mad is when you do bad reviews of her book.  She will come after you with a butter knife. LOL

I think many of my detractors underestimate how much homework I do on them. I think blackmenvent.com has an opportunity to go mainstream. Its just a matter of time.

Anyway, back to pressing issues here. More specifically BDWE dependency revealed,

So Dee Dee from Christelyn’s blog came over and decided to challenge a blog legend. I literally got tired of arguing back and forth with the woman.

I am happy for her comments though. It stirred up some emotions in me. I haven’t really been intellectual in a long time. LOL I feel like Floyd Mayweather forced to fight this time. LOL Dee Dee was like “Cotto”. She really hit me hard, I was like whoa (Putting hands up) LOL.

She did hit below the belt though. I don’t like talk about kids or my daughter.  It comes with the territory. I get accused of bashing children, which I never really thought I did. Well, yea it comes off like that. Black women with kids by different men. Sounds like I am attacking the kids.  The kids should never suffer for the poor decisions of the parents.

I totally understand black mothers need a “social life”. Perhaps I was a bit heavy handed in my commentary.  If a man wants to date a woman with kids and he “got kids”. That  should be fine. My problem with the situation is when black women blame us for shit.

Dee Dee had mentioned something relating to black men not paying child support.  Before I end do that I want to show the TO youtube with his baby mothers on Dr Phil.

I half watched the video. Listen this is my opinion. These women was overpaid to be with.  TO “fell off”, why do they fucking think you can still get 20gs a month ‘still”? Are you stupid or something? There is no money to get anymore. WTF did you do with the money he gave you?  Spend it on clothes and hair? Now you want to act like you are hurt “he never saw the children”. BITCH PLEASE, you only care about that gravy train stopping.

As for TO, that negro should have got people he trusted. His manager ripped him off, wtf was Kita doing (his personal assistants)?  I would have ripped into there asses. Yo, you know I am with the white girl right? LOL Why the fuck you ain’t tracking down  these people that manage my money? OBVIOUSLY, IF I LOSE MONEY, YOU LOSE MONEY. You  Kita . you busy wondering if you giving it up to a black man for like 4 episodes.  Man I lost count, I said fuck it.  The Chubby Negro left her anyway.  I don’t even remember. She could have been with TO’s friends if it was going to go down like that. LOL Kita and Moe,  they tried to hang in there. I will give them credit for trying.  I am going to keep it real, I would have hooked up Kita with 1 of my athlete friends,  than I would have her influence the guy to do business with me. (There  I go with the pimp shit). I am just saying. LOL If I lost what 40 to 60 million in my career. SOMEBODY getting on the stroll to get my money, I don’t care if its Precious. Shit!

TO (shaking my head). Why would you even go on the Dr Phil show? I would say bitch kiss my ass,  I done gave you THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS OVER YEARS.

This is not a condemnation of all black women that get substantial child support. Puffy baby mother does well (in fashion and got her own clothing line). Chrissy (Jim Jones baby mother, wife now I dunno). She doing okay with her little  TV show.  Shaq ex wife doing well with her little TV show, all of them actually. Jennifer ( I like Jennifer, Eric’s ex wife). I am going to tell you why I like her.  I think she is one of those type of black women that are lost without a husband. Just so simple, follows what other black women are doing.  There loose friend jump off a roof, they go right along with it.  There is quite a few black women that are just ‘followers”. Eric was right, she drank the devil’s drink and changed up.  However, if you leave a lost woman out there (she is rich).  Money  to a lost woman can easily slip through her hands. Eric does well financially. Eric even said he got that whole idea of the show going and introduced Jennifer to them. Eric ain’t half to do that.  These women are ungrateful.  Maybe they just don’t know any better.

Their friend is stripping, so her dumb ass go right along with it and take off her clothes too. She know she ain’t built for that. Look at players club.

Classic scene, that shit is real man.  Basically, its far more WORSE now. The pecking order in a black strip club is the ‘thick redbones” and everybody else got to struggle to get men to throw money there way.  By the way, if you are looking for fairness and equality in the strip club (you are not going to find it).  However, I won’t just say red bones make money. Quite a few dark skin girls make money. Again, their body is going to be coca cola shape.

You wonder why some of these former stripper black women get on drugs. It can be crushing for men to reject you half naked.  I don’t care how hard a black woman claims to be.  That will shake any woman’s confidence.
Anyway, back to Dee Dee. She keeps talking like “men work for her”. If a man has a marginal job that “makes him happy”. That is what makes him happy. What are you bringing to the table other than you’re annoying attitude and entitlement?

As for your statistics, nobody disputes that. However things are equally bad for black women.

This leads me to the NYT article

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/11/opinion/the-human-cost-of-ideology.html?_r=1&hp

The Human Cost of Ideology

I found the article very interesting.

For more than a year, House Republicans have energetically worked to demolish vital social programs that have made this country both stronger and fairer over the last half-century. At the same time, they have insisted on preserving bloated military spending and unjustifiably low tax rates for the rich. That effort reached a nadir on Thursday when the House voted to prevent $55 billion in automatic cuts imposed on the Pentagon as part of last year’s debt-ceiling deal, choosing instead to make all those cuts, and much more, from domestic programs.

If this bill were enacted, estimates suggest that nearly two million Americans would lose food stamps and 44 million others would find them reduced. The bill would eliminate a program that allows disabled older people to live at home and out of institutions. It cuts money that helps low-income families buy health insurance. At the same time, the House bill actually adds more than $8 billion to the Pentagon budget

The rainbeaus clearly seem to care about black women here.  I guess the House forgets that the people they send to war, will end up on these social programs due to various mental illnesses related to ‘war”.

I think most people are misinformed and stupid.  They very same people that elect these people are on these social programs. Yet, when they are cut, they blame the black president.  The president does not pass legislation or create laws, nor enforces laws. He does not create jobs, or cut taxes. He does not do any of that. The people you elect are supposed to work on your behalf.

However,  we can’t continue to have a nanny state here.   How much taxes can 1 citizen pay to keep  dependent people afloat? It is either 1 extreme or another here.

I am a blue dog Democrat.  Its unfortunate what the Dems have become. It is almost a dirty word. Just like conservative is a dirty word.

I will say this, I am dead set AGAINST cutting medicare and medicaid. I am dead set against cutting social security.  That is the core principles of the Dem party.

Everything else can be compromised on.

I am out.

(Lighting my cigar).

So Mr Banks is on Dr Drew’s show.  Basically running his mouth again. Uh Black women are not “flourishing”. I don’t even know where they get there research for them. The media worth of black women is 5 dollars. I have met very few black women that “are rolling in money”.  IN this recession black women went from first in employment to last in employment. They were the first ones to lose there homes to the foreclosure crisis. The problem with Mr Banks and the BDWE black women that back him.

They want to put down a vast majority of black men because they don’t make enough money. Yet, when the white man is struggling financially. Nobody tells the white woman to leave them. The sheer hypocrisy of this “clown”. They got feel good media stories about white women being loyal like a dog to there broke white man. Yet, they encourage black women to abandon black men. Yet if black men abandon black women due to weight related illnesses or obesity, there bad attitude, there kids by different men. We get punished for it. This clown Mr Banks is laughing because he is god damn charlatan.

That black women called him out on that. If white men were so great, why they are not choosing black women at rapid rates? Why are the marriage rates so stagnant?  It seems to me black women are not the problem concerning interracial dating. The rainbeaus got to choose black women. What are black women supposed to do spread there legs to rainbeaus and say I am available please take me in? Basically Mr Banks is saying “black girl get on the stroll and pull a non black man”. He is just  an “Academic Pimp”.

The more  Mr Banks talked. The more of a clown he becomes.  I don’t care if he has a black family.  Black men got families too. Nobody gives a fuck about the black man and his family. Yet, we are supposed to care what happens to non black people all the time. We must assimilate with non black people all the time. What happened to building up your own community? Why does Mr Banks leave out the fact that black men are dating out at triple the rate of black women.  He knows he can’t talk about that (shaking my head oh hell no).

That has always been my approach in life. These stupid  Black bloggers always looking for validation from non white people. They want to always latch on to the race of other people. I had a troll tell me why did I see “Avengers”. I saw Avengers because Samuel L Jackson was in it bitch. You was watching a black man “outperform” all the actors and actress in that movie.

Samuel L Jackson really anchored that movie. I was really impressed.

Mr Banks is stupid. It should be called “Is Black women Marriage Material”. Clearly, non black men are not chasing them down for marriage. Now ask yourself why that is? They don’t want to ask the tough questions that is why. Mr Banks know the truth. Not only are non black men ridiculing him (he admits this). Black men just think he is a clown trying to sell books.  Every book that comes out is contingent on indirectly or directly bashing black men.

The conversation never really talked about the “rainbeaus”.  At the end of the day, when you jump off a plane you need a parachute.  Apparently, Mr Banks got a rude awakening when he realized black women got no “non black men parachutes” they can count on.

I am totally indifference either way concerning this. I already feel the words exchanged “on both sides” has gone past reconciliation. I am going to tell you why black men feel this way. It was all fun and games before. Now its just plain dislike at this point.

The same black women bashing black men. They call black men to help them out. They drop there panties for black men when shit gets fucked up for them. If they are doing “so well”, why are you degrading yourself? Obviously if  you are not married to a white guy or his “girlfriend” and you claim your dating. Basically the rainbeau is just fucking you. Once you say “where is this relationship going”? He will drop her just like that. I have seen this happen.

They like to say black men are “cruel”. Non black men are far more cruel than black men are. White men might give you something to make you go away (monetary stuff). That is an insult to be honest with you. He will say “okay Tameka keep the used car I bought you”. He knows she can’t afford the “car insurance”. Black women tend to be very dependent. When they get comfortable, they really depend on a man. I have seen black women that was with a man for 10, 15, 20 years, the guy dies, disappears, or finds a new woman. These same women “are stuck”, to survive, or pay there bills. They jump from man to man. That is the stds rates are so high.  It is very hard for black women in there 30s and 40s to adjust financially when the man was doing all the “work”. Even black women that have good careers, struggle a bit by themselves. They would like a spouse to take the weight off them.

There are many black women like this. Prior to the recession, black women were doing “well”  BECAUSE so many men was spending money on them. Not because they got “college degrees” in soft sciences.  That is a myth.  You can do a study on women with husbands and boyfriends and they are doing well financially.

Now suddenly black women are doing “well” with no reliable boyfriend or husband. That does not make any sense at all.  Somebody is playing with the statistics (shaking my computer screen) LOL. Black women are “super women” now. They got degrees, kids by different men, paying all the bills by themselves. I don’t even know white guys that are single, financially doing well without a roommate helping them out.

MY homeboy Gary (former white coworker, he got laid off due to women issues lol). Anyway, Gary’s white girlfriend left him ‘when shit got bad”. She took his truck and picked up the next man with it. Get this, the man that his girlfriend was having an ‘affair with”. He wrecks the truck, call his girlfriend a slut and claims she got an STD.

Not only did your girl treat you like a “simp”, she indirectly gets your truck wrecked (that you need  to work with because he is a cable field tech). She leaves your ass. Now you are on the brink of foreclosure, got no food in the house,  his internet is off. He is unemployed, he has not received unemployment yet.

I told Gary, I will help you get a job Bro. ( I got connections).  I tried to get Gary back in the company with me but my boss said “he is a no rehire).

The moral of the story. You fucked with a girl that brought you down. Gary was like “you was right dude, she can go back to her mother dude”.

Gary likes to talk tough ( I put the battery in his back though). He ain’t really like that. LOL

Gary is only 25, I am 33. I told him I went through the “same thing”.  But the difference between me and you. I knew the “knife was coming”. So I had to keep the peace due to her “being on the lease of my residence”. Plus she had my ‘credit cards and info”. As soon as she got locked up. I cancelled all my credit cards, Tow trucked my cars back to Florida, cleaned the place out and left her an ” oh baby letter, saying everything is going to be okay”.

The “younger me”, might have beat her up and be in prison. I am older and more mature now.  You see women do some foul shit. Not only black women, non black women too.

That is why I always believe being “soft” gets you nowhere in life.  Gary is the classic case of a nice white guy fucked over. The funny thing was his white girlfriend was with “white thugs”. LOL I guess it cuts across all races. (Shaking my head)

I told Gary you are a “man now”. You need a kick in the ass to get your life back on track. Trust me, I may say negative things about black women. But without those experiences I wouldn’t be the man I am today.  I am still a fair man. But I just approach women from a harder perspective. I am very blunt. If they ask if I have a girlfriend. I say, “do you have a boyfriend? If they hesitate, I say baby don’t ask me no questions about my personal life. I work hard that’s all you need to know. Respect the game, you can always find a nice rainbeau to be with.

If you can’t handle the “big boys” you can play  at the kiddie pool or maybe a tamer situation for you. Trust me, if I catch you slipping, I will expose your weaknesses.  The eyes pretty much tell you everything. If black women avert there eyes from you. They are not interested in you. God forbid they look up. I am on there ass! It’s very much (hmm thinking), a pimp philosophy way of dating. Women just tend to look down to shield themselves from men. That is perfectly fine with me.  Again like the discovery channel, you just watch your prey and look for the weakest calf, if you can’t get that calf, well we will get the “bull” (work on the elite black women, which is not easy at all).

I tend to think the elite and intelligent black women are a “challenge”. I solve problems all day for a living at “my job”.  Most of the weaknesses of very intelligent black women is being lonely, unable to find a man to have a conversation with. There are many things in my arsenal that I won’t reveal.

It can work against you though. When they say black men are intimidated by intelligent black women. I always say “its the other way around”.  See a dumb man can be kept around by the physical features of a black woman. Black women are confidant in that situation. But an intelligent black man shakes that “confidence”.  Especially if he doing well for himself.

That is why Desmond can have 11 kids by difference black women. Not because he is the brightest crayon in the box. Many of those black women “thought they could control him”. Since it was more than 1 more black women having his child, I saw a pathology there concerning black women.

I heard other black women knocking these “black women for being with Desmond. Yet, these same black women would  have ashy babies for black athletes. Yet, try to come off as respectable black women because they landed a “rich nigga”.

Well the “nigga rich” so I ain’t a low life black woman. Man please, you got lucky. If you didn’t have a baby by a rich athlete, I would call you stupid. That is like hitting the lottery for women.

Now back to Mr Banks………………..

He needs to address the out of wedlock children for black women with non black men.

He needs to address the lack of interest by non black men and why that is

He needs to address single black mothers and there dating obstacles.

Why the fuck he thinks black men feel black women owe them something.

Last time i checked, men pay for everything when it comes to courting a woman.

Change that shit to why black women feel there entitled to the best spouse when they have severe limitations. When a black woman with kids by different men, overweight, not that educated, got the right to demand anything.

You got some fucking nerve.

I hope I can find a rainbeau to take me in

If my rainbeau can leave me like this, good luck black girlfriend.

Work that spandex girl. I want to dance with somebody, whoa this my song, go ahead Whitney

(Leaning in my chair) I use to love a Different World. I liked Freddie for some reason. For the record that was my all time favorite episode. Dwayne did the right thing, Some of these black women don’t got damn listen until you have to intervene on there behalf. I like to talk using videos as “metaphors” in my blog. This is what makes me a compelling black blogger.  Again I have to point out here, it shows you the “good black man” Dwayne trying to give her punk ass advice. She refuses to listen and almost gets caught up. At least she humble enough to  “thank him”. Most of these modern day nappy headed black women would have said “its my fault, fuck it let him rape me”.

I know what I say “is not politically correct”. I kind of lost count on how many black women I know that just think this is okay. I often say, its sort of borderline rape because you ain’t really want to go along with the sex. Because the guy is black, they kind of blame themselves. Me personally, I think its rape.  If she don’t want to have sex, keep it moving.  I have always intervened on situations with guys I knew (I ran with a rough crowd).  Ill stand up first, I will tell the girl look ” get the fuck out man”. These niggas is going to do something to you. I bear the consequences of fighting my own people because you want to be a young slut. Putting myself in harm’s way.

I also have to be honest too. There was more than enough black women willingly to be whores to a group of men. They don’t see  nothing wrong with it.  I never preached to other black men on whether to run a train on a black woman. I just remove myself from the situation.  I don’t need that shit in my life. As far as having regrets. Again, I am not an Angel at all. That is probably why I date primarily older black women. You grown and you know what your doing.

Anyway,

Breaking news man. I was actually watching the Laker game when that crazy black girl got on the court. I told my homeboy, maybe she got lost or something. I can’t believe a black woman would do that bitchassness Bruh.

My homeboy looked at me and said “somebody’s jump off is loose”. I said na brother, I don’t think a black woman would do this shit. It’s not that bad yet. Lo Behold , I was proven wrong again. Just when I think I have seen everything with black women. The bitchassness went to another level.

Here is the rumors, and if you niggas in the NBA. They will tell you who that black woman was! I take rumors as facts because, no broke ass black woman can get front court seats that cost hmmm about 10,000 to 50,000 without being somebody’s jump off.

Here are the rumors

May 07, 2012: MediaTakeOut.com just got word that the CRAZED FAN who ran onto the court during the Lakers game was claiming to be L.A. Lakers player Ramon Sessions’ jumpoff. Ramon has a longtime GF, so she’s DEFINITELY not a main chick (if she’s ANYTHING at all).

According to one person SITTING IN THE FRONT ROW, the young lady was calling out for him during the game . . . and when he didn’t respond, she walked on the court. WOW – girl did you need to talk to him THAT BADLY??

Anyways, police claim that when she was walking away she started yelling CRAZY ISH like, “You know who I am . . . ask Kenyon [Martin], he’ll tell you.”

But here’s the KICKER. The girl had GOOD SEATS . . . so she had to know SOMEONE to get them. We really hope that Ramon ain’t THAT DUMB .

God damn Ramon you brought a wacky jump off to your playoff game. The only black women you should have at your games are your MOMMA, SISTERS, GRANDMA (GOD BLESS GRANDMA WE LOVE YOU MAN) UH BABY MOMMA (IF SHE ACT RIGHT) AND UH NIECES AND AUNTIES.

Instead you brought Freddy from a Different World to the game drunk as hell. You know why her ass was drunk. I am going to tell you why her punk ass drunk. Black women cannot ACCEPT being SECOND PLACE. They just can’t accept that.  If you got a black mistress or jump off, you got to switch up man. I am telling you, you got switch up black girls after some time. This is what happens right here (pointing to the youtube).

They get all emotional, they want the big house, they want the Bently, they want the tall black man’s ashy babies (if when they claim they do not).

It’s not so much a money thing. This is where I disagree with my peers here. For black women it’s the “security and status”. It’s similar to be the main woman of a drug dealer.

That is why a black woman would chase a NBA player instead of his “white agent”. The white agent might be a stable guy, (not innocent, agents do the same bs, NBA black men do but they just hide it). Plus there jumpoffs are not coming on the court like a god damn “bird”.

Anyway, I am going to cut it short, I might do a full length album on this. I had to really write about this incident because the desperation setting in.

Judging from the video, she a “thick girl”, she might have been “slimmer” but that depression and stress made her put on the weight. Ramon decided man bitch I ain’t talking to you anymore.

I am going to be honest with you. The WORST insult for a black woman regardless if she “dates out or not”. Is for a “well to do black man” to reject her after awhile. They try so hard sexually to keep that man and to fail. It can be very devastating for many black women.  I think so many of them are so delusional that they start to feel like “they can get any man they want”. When they finally “wake up”, they find themselves on a NBA Court drunk as hell “lashing out”.

The white girl don’t do this bullshit. She takes what she can get or keeps in good graces with the athletes (they may help her get a job like Stephon Marbury did during his time with the Knicks).

LOL Let me touch on that because Anucha Sanders “accused’ Isiah Thomas of “sexual harassment”. Some of my black female readers were like sexual harassment is not about “looks”. The woman looks like a “man”. WTF Isiah is “gay or something”? I don’t see how he could do that. Anyway, she settles out and the Knicks got rid of him and her.

The little white girl that was fucking Stephon Marbury and his “cousins” that were hired due to his influence. She still work at the Knicks. After it was all said and done. All them niggas is gone and the white girl is still at the Knicks Organization.

The moral of the story. I am not here to laugh at the drunk black girl. I kind of have sympathy for her. I would have just handled it “differently”. I would have said look baby,  I ain’t trying to settle down. You can come by the mansion and hang out. Just don’t do that bullshit or I can’t fuck with you.

Now her drunk ass is black balled by “everybody”. She is an idiot. Bad enough you are a “jump off ” for a Laker. Now nobody is going to go near you because you are a “loose cannon”. The established black women jump offs in the NBA (plenty of them). They know what time it is.  What can you do you man, these young quirky black girls with a nice body, maybe she from Canada or something. LOL They start feeling some type way. Judging from the video and picture, that devil’s drink got her going. She young, only a young black girl does some shit like this.

I am out.

Yeah and I am delusional. The guy got 11 kids with a bunch of dumb ass black women that ain’t know he “gets around”. Believe me, I hope the rainbeau take the dumb ones off the black man’s hands. How you possible not know the man ain’t had like 1000 kids!!!!!!!!! Yet, you taking him to child support to get a 1.98 cents. He only works min wage.  When I listen to the BDWE women say delusional statements like we are “running scared from them”. I just to say  are you high? Are you sniffing your rainbeaus cocaine AGAIN!  (loss of words).

(Looking out the window) By the way shout out to the trolls ( I passed all my classes this semester for my Computer Science major, I will have degree next semester.) For the record, you haven’t seen nothing yet. Anyway, keep sending me incoherent racial rants. Please take an English class. Everything you say is N word this and etc. I just delete them. If you can’t spell or put sentences together properly, why would I be worried about you? I am not the spelling and grammar police but the incoherent rants are annoying to me.

Anyway, let me move on.

I saw the Mayweather fight ( it was good). I also saw the Avenger’s movie.  I rarely go to the movies. Unfortunately, my Sociology spider senses started tingling.  It seems more and more young black girls are sticking in tight knit groups. I remember a couple years ago you would have some of the black boys in the subgroup.

I also saw many older black couples (30s and 40s). Usually with the black woman being considerably older than her counterpart.  Now the white folks at the movie theater and Hispanic folks. It was like the whole extended family coming out. You know the typical nuclear family.  The black boys I observed usually had a homeboy with them or were “nomadic”. I live a certain nomadic existence. Basically I keep to myself.

You got to understand something. Most men will never reach the level of awareness that I have reached. They are still buying shit to “impress women” instead of educating or building wealth for themselves. In my early 20s, I use to think that’s what he had to do. Clothes, cars, and etc. I started to realize what is the purpose of all this shit

The same guys I grew up with are locked for trying to accumulate money to impress hos. Much of what men do is to impress women. I am not saying its a bad thing.

When my relationships ended,  It made me motivated to prove a point. It is constructive for me. When people say I can’t do something. I will go out of my way to do it.  You have to take criticisms in stride. Unfortunately, we got a politically correct society that says No No let’s not hurt the feeling of people even thought it might save there life.

Which brings me to this article.

By ALICE RANDALL

Published: May 5, 2012
FOUR out of five black women are seriously overweight. One out of four middle-aged black women has diabetes. With $174 billion a year spent on diabetes-related illness in America and obesity quickly overtaking smoking as a cause of cancer deaths, it is past time to try something new.

What we need is a body-culture revolution in black America. Why? Because too many experts who are involved in the discussion of obesity don’t understand something crucial about black women and fat: many black women are fat because we want to be.

The black poet Lucille Clifton’s 1987 poem “Homage to My Hips” begins with the boast, “These hips are big hips.” She establishes big black hips as something a woman would want to have and a man would desire. She wasn’t the first or the only one to reflect this community knowledge. Twenty years before, in 1967, Joe Tex, a black Texan, dominated the radio airwaves across black America with a song he wrote and recorded, “Skinny Legs and All.” One of his lines haunts me to this day: “some man, somewhere who’ll take you baby, skinny legs and all.” For me, it still seems almost an impossibility.

Chemically, in its ability to promote disease, black fat may be the same as white fat. Culturally it is not.

How many white girls in the ’60s grew up praying for fat thighs? I know I did. I asked God to give me big thighs like my dancing teacher, Diane. There was no way I wanted to look like Twiggy, the white model whose boy-like build was the dream of white girls. Not with Joe Tex ringing in my ears.

How many middle-aged white women fear their husbands will find them less attractive if their weight drops to less than 200 pounds? I have yet to meet one.

But I know many black women whose sane, handsome, successful husbands worry when their women start losing weight. My lawyer husband is one.

Another friend, a woman of color who is a tenured professor, told me that her husband, also a tenured professor and of color, begged her not to lose “the sugar down below” when she embarked on a weight-loss program.

And it’s not only aesthetics that make black fat different. It’s politics too. To get a quick introduction to the politics of black fat, I recommend Andrea Elizabeth Shaw’s provocative book “The Embodiment of Disobedience: Fat Black Women’s Unruly Political Bodies.” Ms. Shaw argues that the fat black woman’s body “functions as a site of resistance to both gendered and racialized oppression.” By contextualizing fatness within the African diaspora, she invites us to notice that the fat black woman can be a rounded opposite of the fit black slave, that the fatness of black women has often functioned as both explicit political statement and active political resistance.

When the biologist Daniel Lieberman suggested in a public lecture at Harvard this past February that exercise for everyone should be mandated by law, the audience applauded, the Harvard Gazette reported. A room full of thin affluent people applauding the idea of forcing fatties, many of whom are dark, poor and exhausted, to exercise appalls me. Government mandated exercise is a vicious concept. But I get where Mr. Lieberman is coming from. The cost of too many people getting too fat is too high.

I live in Nashville. There is an ongoing rivalry between Nashville and Memphis. In black Nashville, we like to think of ourselves as the squeaky-clean brown town best known for our colleges and churches. In contrast, black Memphis is known for its music and bars and churches. We often tease the city up the road by saying that in Nashville we have a church on every corner and in Memphis they have a church and a liquor store on every corner. Only now the saying goes, there’s a church, a liquor store and a dialysis center on every corner in black Memphis.

The billions that we are spending to treat diabetes is money that we don’t have for education reform or retirement benefits, and what’s worse, it’s estimated that the total cost of America’s obesity epidemic could reach almost $1 trillion by 2030 if we keep on doing what we have been doing.

WE have to change. Black women especially. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, blacks have 51 percent higher obesity rates than whites do. We’ve got to do better. I’ve weighed more than 200 pounds. Now I weigh less. It will always be a battle.

My goal is to be the last fat black woman in my family. For me that has meant swirling exercise into my family culture, of my own free will and volition. I have my own personal program: walk eight miles a week, sleep eight hours a night and drink eight glasses of water a day.

I call on every black woman for whom it is appropriate to commit to getting under 200 pounds or to losing the 10 percent of our body weight that often results in a 50 percent reduction in diabetes risk. Sleeping better may be key, as recent research suggests that lack of sleep is a little-acknowledged culprit in obesity. But it is not just sleep, exercise and healthy foods we need to solve this problem — we also need wisdom.

I expect obesity will be like alcoholism. People who know the problem intimately find their way out, then lead a few others. The few become millions.

Down here, that movement has begun. I hold Zumba classes in my dining room, have a treadmill in my kitchen and have organized yoga classes for women up to 300 pounds. And I’ve got a weighted exercise Hula-Hoop I call the black Cadillac. Our go-to family dinner is sliced cucumbers, salsa, spinach and scrambled egg whites with onions. Our go-to snack is peanut butter — no added sugar or salt — on a spoon. My quick breakfast is a roasted sweet potato, no butter, or Greek yogurt with six almonds.

That’s soul food, Nashville 2012.

I may never get small doing all of this. But I have made it much harder for the next generation, including my 24-year-old daughter, to get large.

Alice Randall is a writer in residence at Vanderbilt University and the author of “Ada’s Rules.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/06/opinion/sunday/why-black-women-are-fat.html?_r=2&hp

How did we get to 4 out of  5 black women being overweight. Well black men started saying fat was thick. Thus if you make a black woman delusional enough. They start to make justifications for there obesity. The rainbea does not want a fatty patty.

What is funny to me is that a certain segment of the BDWE has harsh words for white men that do not want a chunky black women. They say it is “racist”.

It’s racism  because you won’t get your fat ass to the gym. You want the rainbeau to feed your fat ass, bring an english muffin egg sandwich like Evia used to get. Oh yeah, work 50 hours a week. So you can sit on a blog with the stay at home BDWE moms talking about a little swirl book.Yet, you can go to a club and dance your life away. Your fat ass can squeeze in a tight dress and dance. But you won’t put on sweats to work out!

Man listen, those BDWE authors are established already. You are trying to get to where they are at. You busy eating dunkin donuts screaming Hercules Hercules while Chrisslyn is on the beach sipping wine.

Think about it, she is sipping wine. You busy talking about a peek in the mind of the DBR. Listen go  “peek” in a gym.

When I went to the gym, I hardly saw any black women in the gym. I saw maybe 1 or 2.

Black women are in a dire situation here. Obviously there will never be a rush for black women to lose weight. As long as black men “cosign” it. Black women feel comfortable. The BDWE women, as much as they would want a white guy. They tend to just hope he likes a “chubby girl” ,that is what they are gambling on.
However the main problem is black men that encourage this behavior.  They said fat ass Pinky the porn star was sexy. They said Buffie the Body was cute.

Now that the rainbeau is in the picture. There like I need you  to eat some salad and go to the gym”.
Listen they are not going to the gym, they will not change there fast food lifestyle.  I know its a harsh thing to say but its the reality.

Black women got so much responsibilities that they don’t got enough time to work out.

Most women workout when they have a spouse that works out.

I remember going to the YMCA, I invited my ex to go. She went to the gym once. She went back home and sat her fat ass in the bed and watched TV.

Diabetes is not a joke. I went to my doctor and he said my Vitamin D was very low. (Due to working from home, I hardly go outside in the weekday). I am taking Vitamin D supplements.

My doctor said you have to exercise and your AC1 is creeping up. I decided to go to the park and play basketball again. I usually play for 2 hours against good competition.

Now to this article

A dark corner of America: Photographs show Philadelphia’s seedy, drug-fueled underbelly and its inhabitants’ struggle to survive

The reason I put this article up. I read that Toni made the implication there are many rainbeaus for black women. She is sadly mistaken. There is a shortage of white men for white women as well.  You have to factor in Asian and Latin women dipping in that rainbeau population. So BDWE Black women are sadly mistaken  to believe that doctor, lawyer, or white collar man they pine for is going to pick them first.
There is fierce competition for white women to keep their own men. Now you got 4 out of 5 black women obese. Effectively it is wrap for them to get any decent white guy. I don’t know if they will ever wake up from there delusions.

These are the same black women that rejected fat ass Matthew a couple blogs back on No Wedding NO womb. The funny part was most of them are fat “themselves’ but critiquing Matthew. This is how dysfunctional many of these black women have become.

Now they want to convince people that can make sound decisions concerning men.

Well Look at this article!!! concerning the article with the man with 11 kids.   I guess the BDWE will say these black women were “indoctrinated”.

According to data from a 2009 Census report (the last date that statistics are available), “About half (46.8 percent) of parents owed child support in 2007 received the full amount, while nearly one-third (29.5 percent) received only a portion of the total due and about one-quarter (23.7 percent) received none of the child support they were owed.”

Of this number, Black children receiving TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families), through their custodial parents was dramatically higher than other ethnic groups:  “Among white, non-Hispanic children in families, 22.4 percent lived with a custodial parent. The proportion of Black children in families with a custodial parent was 48.2 percent. Among children of other races, including American Indians and Alaska Natives, and Asians and Pacific Islanders, 16.1 percent lived in a custodial-parent family. Approximately one-quarter (25.4 percent) of Hispanic children lived with a custodial parent.”

Interestingly enough, though the number of Black children is higher than other children, the ethnic group of the mothers do not reflect that data. Most of the mothers are White (50.2 percent), while only 27.8 percent are Black. Hispanic women count for 18.0 percent of mothers receiving child support. Custodial fathers were more likely to be white, non-Hispanic (71.6 percent), with 11.4 percent being Black, and 12.1 percent being Hispanic.

The above video was unearthed by Dr. Boyce Watkins at Your Black World in efforts to expose the irresponsibility that is devastating the Black community and, unfortunately, a mere cursory glance shows that Hatchett is far from alone.

I bet you can't even make a sandwich! You don't worry about my rainbeau "baby" daddy not marrying me! I blame you for that shit too!

(Lighting my cigar)

I am feeling good man. There has been some backlash behind the scenes concerning my recent posts about Chrissylyn and friends. I kind of understand where Chrissylyn is coming from. She is trying to distance herself from the “wrong people or person”. This is just my opinion on what she  trying to do. Her real problem is reeling in the sellout black women on her blog that seem to want to endlessly comment about black men.

It is almost like a venting session for them. I doubt rainbeaus actually want to listen a group of middle aged black women lecture people or black men about ‘competing”. These women have never competed in there lives. The only time they were able to get a rainbeau was when they realized he had a black fetish sexually for black women. No amount of blaming the “media, black media, black men” will change the elephant in the room they choose to ignore.

The rainbeau has to make the decision to be with black women. The rainbeau must be willinging to take on a black woman with kids by different men. The rainbeau has to make the decision if he would like to date a full figured black woman.  The rainbeau has to be willing to support these dependent ass black women. That seem to like to bite the hand that feeds them. I could go on about it.

Anyway,

I have been doing this a long time. I got a degree in Sociology. I have actively observed the behaviors of black women. I think many of my detractors got a problem with me “personally”. I rarely get challenged on the statistics that I bring to the table. I would like to thank Mrs Kitty for always being there when things got really “dim” at one point. You know what is funny to me.

People running around claiming I ‘slandered them”. Slander is when people do a website about you and just claim its the truth when its not.  I don’t even got a criminal record. Let alone, any interactions with prostitutes.  You actually do not need a prostitute because so many women semi prostitute themselves. I don’t say shit just to say it, I just tell you the truth. I can’t recall ANY black woman that didn’t have there hand out.  They can barely pay a tip at dinner but you want to say black men cannot compete.

You wonder why men are pussy hungry concerning black women. They don’t show ‘yall” respect because you have the inability to respect men unless they give you something. In return, they don’t give you something for “nothing”. Every word out of a rainbeau mouth, focuses on the physical features of a black woman. They never say damn that Jamila is getting a MBA.  You are going to ask ‘How I know”.

I pursued a Masters (later left due to family reasons). I went to orientation, majority white women in the MSW course. There was about hmmm 3 or 4 black women.  The guys in that program strictly talked to the blonde blue eyed white girl. I was friendly with some of the black girls but nobody was exactly “chasing them down” or hanging out with them after hours. Mind you, to get enrolled in a Master’s program is “not easy”.  It takes more than be very educated to get a man to marry you.

Now back to the semi prostitution that  I think “plagues” black women to the point that its sad. I honestly don’t even know where this mentality comes from. It is so bad that even white guys can’t defend them.

The funny thing is some of the black women that do this semi prostitution . They do it so a man can pay there light bill, get there hair done, or get new shoes.  When I say this, I am the bad guy. I am well aware of this. It does not bother me one bit that some people dislike my comments. I would feel some type of way, if what I said ‘was lies”.

White guys has said the same complaints about there “own white women”. They don’t receive half the backlash I get. Unfortunately, we live in a hand out, entitlement society.  Some women feel that they must be compensated to be with  a man.

Recently I was accused of being delusional.  I sort of lauged off the email like “are you serious”. No this is delusional right here.

I had to respond to some of the comments concerning Toni’s post. I think she actually got a hit for once. The responses were sort of interesting to read.  Here are some of the comments………………………………………………………………………………………………

The Working Home Keeper1324 pts

(Leaning my chair) My man told the truth. White men view black women as “whores”. A gross dis appropriate of black women that are whoring and semi prostituting themselves in major cities. Talk to them big homey. About time. Yet, they claim white men are going to marry them? Marry them how? Everything a white man says about black women is “sexual”. It is never about how smart they are, or they are highly educated. These BDWE women are a joke. Big homey tell em what the deal is man!

Na they don’t know the depths of there problems. No man respects a woman who has a “baby daddy”. Especially if she has multiple baby daddies.  Speak on it homey!

I will address the youtube (further down) Um the barbie analogy was a bit weird. But I will address it. How we went from a “stay at home” make the comparison of being stronger than a black woman with a god damn career and is able to take care of herself. HOW DID WE GET TO THIS????

I am going to tell you why i wrote this post today. My white homeboy Gary girlfriend left him (she is french and Italian).  Long story short, his truck broke down and he is out of work. He is (field cable technician). The woman packs her shit and leaves him for another guy. The “other guy” is like a semi mexican/white gangster or “wannabe”. Anyway, the Mexican/white guy says he can have his bitch back, she might got aids anyway.

Gary says to me “yeah dude, the guy said take your bitch back”. I tell Gary ” you gonna take her back”??

Gary “I dunno dude, she been my rock for a long time”.

My response “ain’t she give you an std”?

“Yeah dude, she ain’t know she had it though”.

My response “she took your truck to pick up a half mexican/white guy because he couldn’t drive because he had a suspended license and she spent the night with him”????????????????????????

Gary ” Uh yeah dude I was hot about it man”

My response “C’mon bro, I been through my trials and tribulations with women. I will be damned a bitch take my car anywhere, much less another man’s house. That is just me though.

Gary ” I hear you dude,  she has anxiety and problems holding a  job”

My response ” She don’t got a problem spreading her legs, that seems to be working, her anxiety don’t keep other men from putting there dick in her ass”

Gary ” Well yeah dude”.

My response ” Hit me up man, I got to head out. We will talk later.

(Any questions) My white homey is soft unfortunately. He is a young guy so I had to school him.  Women do not respect “soft men”. That is just the reality of the situation.  For the BDWE to run around like the rainbeaus are soft and stupid and will “allow” them to take there hard earned money. That is a god damn joke.

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Lighting my cigar. You ever notice that many of the sellout black women take on the mannerisms of white women. There voice is higher than usual, and they take on extremely exaggerated facial expressions. People would tell me “what is talking black huh Laurelton”. It is a bit strange. I could understand if 1 or 2 sellout black women do it. But many of them really take on the mannerisms of white women.  It is kind of disturbing if you ask me.

Anyway

What a fall from grace for Evia Sharon Moore. Ever since Christelyn slapped her face in that infamous confrontation. Evia never recovered from the beat down.  I had wrote a comment or “review”  on 1 of her irrelevant books she released. I don’t even think the book had a “purpose”, it said buy it for 20 dollars because its an “e book’. LOL I guess that is the reason to buy it.

I know some of the BWE Black women that “still” support Evia courageously tried to defend her like a wounded calf about to be eaten by the lions “like me”. It is very telling that not many of the sellout black women came to her defense forcefully like they have done in the past. That was the only reason I put a review up anyway. I wanted to gauge the relevance of Evia

I believe in crushing your enemies and finishing them off. Christelyn just toppled a weak empire. That is very understandable. If you notice the media tends to push only “1 sellout black woman”. It is almost like the media says “Ok Negress move along we know you want a white guy”. “How many times are you going to say the same shit”.

Let me give some of my readers a reminder of what happened. One of the biggest gambles I ever seen in sellout black girl history.

Evia 25 pts

Christelyn Toni_Mshesthedifferencemakerformavitaess

Christelyn, this is why our views would never jell. See, after you’ve tried to damage someone, you then pretend innocence and claim it wasn’t a big deal. I had no idea that you had allowed someone to chop me down on your blog. I would NEVER allow someone to do that to one of my “sisters” in MY house!! What value are you to me if you allow someone to do that to me in YOUR house.???

This is exactly what I mean about PRINCIPLES. I don’t want to be associated with any movement or group or individuals where there are no principles to which there isn’t very strong adherence. Maybe “new school” people do what they want to do when they feel like it in whatever way they want to do it. but I’m so happy that I’m “old school.” We are NOT likeminded enough so there will always be unbearable conflict. So maybe it’s good that this happened so that we can see what the real divide is about: VALUES AND PRINCIPLES

I think this email exchange was very telling. This is where the relationship between bitter, jealous Evia takes a turn for the worse. As you can see Evia is scolding her like a little girl. This is the sort of thing Christelyn has had to deal with concerning her intellectual limitations concerning her No Wedding NO Womb doctine (That has no direction or end game). It continues to have no end game. Right now that whole site has turned into an “elite black woman site” focusing on “rich rainbeaus” that rarely seek black women to marry. Sort of “high school” crushes on grown ass men by “middle aged” black women that lack attention from there “rainbeau” husbands.

It is this type of foolishness that irks many of the BWE Black woman. It is real simple why it irks many BWE Black women. No matter how hard they try they will never achieve the “so called rich well off rainbeaus”. Unless they transformed themselves into Halle Berry or Sanna Lathan (of which many black women are not). Not to mention, man of them have kids out of wedlock (a large percentage of black women). Is “rainbeaus” going to take that on?  They are claiming “rainbeaus will do it”. Okay where they at then?

Technically the BDWE (Christelyn) Wing had decided to abandon the “Financially struggling black women” and focus on the very minuet percentage of black women married to a white man with a good job. Everything else is “oh just do what i do, and you will get you a rainbeau happy meal too”.

Now let me focus on the “Fall of Evia Sharon Moore”.  She is no different than Debra Dickerson. The only difference with her and Debra is Darren is too soft to stand up to Evia.  If Darren decided to leave Evia, Evia would go right back to black men. I have said this “for years”.

The reason I say this is because Evia has been bashing black men for the last couple of years. It has gone on beyond bizarre now. Evia is from the “South” too. So I already know she is just full of shit. I can count on my hands how many of these Southern sellout black women curse black men out and sleep with the very same black men they “hate”.

They openly say ” I only mess white men, i don’t even like you niggas”.  AFTER pulling up her panties up!!!!

Man people think I am joking. I am god damn serious here. LOL That is what the BDWE movement is essentially.  A bunch of sellout black women pulling up there panties after being with black men and saying ” I am mess with white men now”. Oh really is that what it is?

LOL We nervous now. Black men damn near date out at the high percentage of 40 percent now. You was busy pondering and talking out of your ass while black men double lapped your ass. Mind you without “orchestrated promotion, media attention, no swirl books.

Anyway,  as the civil war erupted between Evia and Christelyn. (Which I predicted). They started pulling each others “weaves out”.  Basically here are some more excerpts of the fight….Khadjia actually was the mouthpiece for Evia (Until Khadjia thought Evia got weird with the passing as black woman). Who the fuck says they “are passing as black”. LOL My response to Evia was “Darren passing as black too wait white(confused)”? I don’t get your logic. LOL

From: Christelyn Karazin <karazin></karazin>

Date: Fri, January 07, 2011 9:03 am

To: “Khadija@sojournerspassport.com” <khadija></khadija>

Someone brought this quote from your blog to my attention:

“You know…the conversation in which you were a participant where Christelyn passively sat back and—without saying anything in response—allowed individuals to use her forum as a platform for denigrating her BW blogger colleagues. The same BW colleagues who actively helped her (out front and behind the scenes) with her NWNW campaign. Once it was brought to my attention, I found all of that quite fascinating to watch.”

Khadija, in all due respect, why would you do this publicly?  There are a lot of commenters on my blog that get into beefs and quibbles, and I (almost always) try to stay out of the fray.  I saw the comment you were referring to, when a woman said that Evia denigrates black men, and you’re right–I didn’t comment–because I don’t know enough about her to know whether that is true.  Conversely, I don’t know enough about the writer to know if they are just trolling and trying to start an argument, and I’ve learned the hard way not to engage with people who try to goad me.

Believe me, I have been baited into taking sides with other BWE bloggers and pulled into beefs and I simply will not do it.  I won’t let someone come to my blog and throw about petty insults, but from what I read briefly, I just thought she was being critical and stating her opinion.  I let everyone do that on my blog, unless it’s blatantly trollish.  People even call me out and take issue with me and my opinions, but I won’t even hustle to my own defense because I know I’ll never be able to please everybody.

In my case, silence is not agreement, it is simply me being uninformed.  I don’t spend all day on the BWE boards, and with four kids, I don’t spend a lot of time replying to my own posts on my own blog.  My silence  has nothing to do with being ungrateful for their help with NWNW, in fact, I openly thanked them on several occasions.  But the truth is, I don’t know enough about their personal platforms to agree or disagree on whether Evia or anyone else pummels on black men.  But do I know for sure?  Honestly, I don’t.  I’m sure that’s not the case, but I try to stay as neutral as possible.  Especially if I am not well-versed…you know that saying, better to be thought a fool, than to open one’s mouth and prove it?

Number 1, Evia is not on Christelyn Blog roll.  I am not a fan of Evia but clearly Christelyn spanked Evia out of her grandma panties. Number 2 she was aware of Evia being accused of “bashing black men”.  How the hell would she know where my blog is?  Everybody knows I had a public battle with Evia “years ago”.  I didn’t even know who Christelyn was.  So Evia has a right to be upset up to a certain degree. However, Christelyn put the BWE (Now BDWE) on her back  after everybody “else faded”.

Evia was happy with the promotion I gave her. But she never “ran with it”. Christelyn got a push by me and she “took off”.  She ran with it and released her book. So, what I see is the insecure Evia afraid to “go all out”. At the end of the day Christelyn put her family and ass on the line to promote her book. Considering all the statistics going against her.

Many of the BDWE cannot argue from a statistical stand point. They are not going to argue the 43 percent of them being single mothers and having “rainbeau baby daddies” (notice not husband but baby daddy). The same shit they accused of black men of doing being “dead beat dads”. That is the ironic thing about No Wedding No Womb, it was never originally geared to rainbeaus. She specifically came after black men to “promote herself”.

I don’t know for sure if Christelyn was purely lazy intellectually to “research this” or is just “tone deaf”. 

Okay let me address the youtube and the Barbie “example”. (Sigh) Apparently the um “middle class barbie beat up the ghetto barbie”.

(Watching the clip from 3:00 – 5:00. “Chica is going to kill strong black woman with no pants on. This is “her friend Chica”.

(Face palm)

I just lost my train of thought here.  I honestly think Evia and Christelyn and nut cases. I can’t defend this bitchassness. This is my first time seeing a Christelyn youtube video (actually watching the whole thing).

Plus, she is a stay at home mom (unemployed).

How the fuck  a stay at home mom stronger than a black woman with a god damn JOB and takes care of her kids????

This is where the whole BDWE originated from. It is all about the rainbeau white guy paying for “everything” . I can stay home and write me little book bashing black men that have hurt me in the past under the guise of empowerment.

I will wrap this up. For those BDWE authors that think they will not be “tested”. They are in for a rude awakening. Remember Debra Dickerson was a “stay at home” mom too. Now she in Georgia somewhere taking her panties off to the very same black men she despised. She will justify it as a “learning experience and getting back in touch with her black roots”.

Uh yeah sure is “Debra”. I run into  “many” Debras. Whatever you say is fine with me. Your panties coming down has “healed” the black community. LOL