(Leaning back in my chair)
Oh boy, the little boy got more sense than the god damn mother.
Soundtrack courtesy of Kam (West Coast Legend). I have been saying that to black women for years. ” Na that ain’t the question, the question is what’s in it for me”? 8 out of 10 black woman responses were their panties coming down. That is why many of these black women either love me or hate for being brutally honest. God bless the ONLY 2 black women that had some integrity and never fell for that game. Unfortunately, many of them do fall for it. There was a time that black women did have integrity and a backbone. Now the financial pressures of life have made many of them fold up. As a sociologist, its hard to say what caused the whole thing. Maybe the downfall of the black family. I lean towards it being a whole bunch of issues that caused this. Legacy of slavery, institutionalized racism, incarceration, disease and lack of role models. In my case, I was always a leader. That was the personality I was born with. Some say I am crazy. When you are a follower like most people are. Of course, a leader is going to intimidate you. My peers think like me, that is why they are my peers. I wish there were more black men that were generals instead of followers. If Black men put more passion into education instead of music, we would be better off. Of course there are exceptional black musicians. However, not every black person can be an entertainer, athlete and etc.
That is why I approach blogging from a competitive standpoint. My style of writing is unique. That is why I hardly read other bloggers because I never want their style to rub off on me. I want to think about a subject and write down what comes to my head. The music just reflects my mood when I am writing. That is why the music is so important to my style of writing. Plus it gives me great titles for my posts. LOL Anyway……………..
Man so much things are going on. I was kind of reluctant to comment on so many things on just 1 post. Let me comment on the Michael Brown tragedy. First off, I got a young brother, he is actually schizophrenic. Obviously police has been quite a few times to my father’s house. Maybe 5 out of 10 times, it almost got crazy. More on my part of it because they shouldn’t be in my house without a search warrant. If you go for your gun, I will go for mine. They better have a search warrant when they come to the house. Usually, cooler heads prevail because I just generally do not care at all. I feel like if I didn’t step in to defend my brother they would have shot my brother down like Michael Brown in the street. Yeah my initial reaction is to burn that town down. I still sort of feel that way. I am fine with the looting actually. Nobody respects black people until they go to the wall. Power is never given, you have to take it in some form or fashion.
I think some of the chicken george Negros on the street make me sick. They always make it look like black people do not have a right to be upset if a mutherfucker shoots someone because they were scared the black guy was too big. Oh he was 6ft4, and a black ass nigga too. Man I was scared to death. Well, I had to shoot. I was afraid. Why don’t you join the Fire Department than? I doubt you will find very complacent Negros in a rough and tumble environment they call the black community. Especially when the unemployment rate for black men is sky high. For the record I read the reports on the case.
Apparently, he told the kids to get out of the street and they didn’t listen to him. That was the grounds for the shooting because they got mad he said get out of the street and they tried to take his gun away. Hmm very interesting story. It sounds like bullshit to me. Everybody knows its bullshit. That is why I never really read the news. Half of what you read is bullshit.
The real story is the turning point that black men are taking. You can only slight or disrespect a large segment of men for so long. That anger will eventually boil over and burn you. You can go down the list, Eric Garner, Diallo, and etc. There always seems to be some reverend or some wannabe black cop apologizing for no reason. Everybody does the apologizing except the coward that commits the crime.
A good friend of mine said you can see why people act like that. They are afraid of us. I shrugged my shoulders like “its not my job to make people feel comfortable around black people”. Listen I am afraid of pit bulls, do I say kill all pit bulls? Do I tell the pit bull hey if you smile more than every thing would be okay. Well, I am not that guy. My demeanor does not change. The only thing I did CHANGE was educating myself and using that anger for motivation to be successful. I didn’t need a reverend of a wannabe cop telling me how to live my life. I learned life by trial and error.
Nothing was ever handed to me, I worked hard to be successful. I worked hard to get all my degrees. I even work hard in relationships. The problem is when people are not as ambitious as you are. You become the pain in their side. You are the reason that they never amounted to anything. You are the reason they had an out of wedlock child and must subject themselves to non black men like a prostitute. But these are the same people that relish in the fact they appear desperate. Who would want a black woman that is painfully desperate like that? To make matters worse, actually speaking for non black men or RATHER making excuses as to why they do not want you. That is really pathetic.
You know 1 thing with me, I always had pride and respect. A man told me a long time ago, respect is more important than money. Sellout black women fail to realize this concept. They think their desperation makes them attractive to rainbeaus. They think changing the way they speak, or their appearance to appease a non black man is the way to go. In general, they can never be themselves.
Now they resort to “shaming” non black men now. Obviously that tactic is failing too. You got a guy names TangoSavage or whatever his name is on that Beyond Black and White blog that misrepresents himself as a wannabe black man. He is some sort of “super simp”. He likes alcohol and nasty cigars. LOL Everything he does is the persona of me. It is such an interesting dynamic that you would have to laugh. You might as well ask me to be on the stupid blog. Just be like Yo Drew can you contribute please.
Maybe I got a fake leather jacket in the closet somewhere. It just does not surprise me at this point. Its a result of sellout black women having the inability to pull a decent white guy period. I remember one of the sellout black women puppies whined and said ” Man Christelyn picks the worse white men”. LOL
That might be the understatement of the year. However, I do not blame Christelyn. I blame the desperation in black women for this happening. You might even go on to say black men have forced them into this box. Now they have to shuck and jive for the Savage Tangos of the world. They never really improved at all. You basically went from 1 allegedly DBR Black men to a DBR White men. I think the black woman might be hopeless at this point.
The only difference between a DBR white man is the fact that he is a simp and will bitch up when a black woman “checks him”. As one of these tired ass black woman said to him. I kind of felt sorry for the chump, he bitched up so quick. I had to look twice.
I am out